If someone insists on unsafe sex, then move along. Make sure you have a condom on you at all times, as well as lube. You can always Google them beforehand to see if the environment is safe and clean and always be sure to look at user reviews. So here’s the deal, if you wanna try a bathhouse, there are some great fun ones out there. Kinda strange huh? Once the stigma and preconceptions are removed, people always find something interesting and view it more positively. The thing is this, once people get beyond the shock and disgust, and realize that it can be a fun place, they ask so many questions and become even more curious.
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Plus there’s no need for exchange of pics or info, it’s all right at your hands.” (Literally)
So I said this, “A bathhouse is like a live version of Grindr, where you can say yes or no right on the spot and the location is already set. He was a horn-dog and of course responded yes.
I told that same friend who judged me this: I asked him if he had Grindr, to which he of course responded yes, and then I asked if he had ever hooked up with anyone on there. And yes you may find some guy looking at you who you don’t find attractive, but you can always say no, like in real life. Now why not bypass all of the chit chat and planning, and go to a place where all the people present are looking for the same thing. Whether it’s from meeting each other in a bar, or texting (or rather sexting) on Grindr, Tinder, Scruff, whatever, we all kinda want to have sex. One of my friends even called me disgusting and said he didn’t believe I would stoop to such a level of desperation. Now a lot of my friends have judged me in the past for going to such places. Like seriously, I’ve met some fun guys, all in a dirty grimy yucky bathhouse, and all with a good laugh.
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I’ve met some amazing tour guides in Australia, made a couple of friends across the US who I am still in contact with, met a lovely artist in London and discussed HIV and art amongst other things, met an amazing flight attendant who hopefully one day will upgrade me to first class from Copenhagen.
I mean come on, a bunch of men are walking around a place in a towel, looking so serious, saying “Hey” at the most, and then walking in silence to another room where no talking is done at all (moaning and dirty talk is not a conversation).īut seriously, if you actually talk to one another, you meet some amazing people. Yeah it’s fun to get my horn on but at the same time, it’s a great way to meet people and to laugh at the inherently hilarious situation you are facing. That’s the thing about these places, I find them hilarious. showered up, laughed some more, and talked in the hot tub. It was hilarious, and really broke the super intense gay sexual tension.Īfter that, we all headed out. Typical gay sauna scene right? And then my friend did the best thing ever, he just looked over and said, “Wait, are you all gay?” And everyone laughed. Another guy was touching the leg of a different guy. On this night, me and my friend found a small group in the sauna. And of course there’s the fun spa stuff like hot tubs and pools and saunas and steam rooms (just to open up your pores and relax). I mean bad porn is playing on every TV, there’s a dungeon, a random barrel or two (seriously what’s with the barrels?!) and men (if present) creeping around running into the same people over and over until they find something they think is to their liking. Now bathhouses are hilarious, especially when they’re empty. So for the first 15 minutes or so, literally we just walked around the place in our towels and were expecting so many displays of debauchery….but alas it was a Sunday night and the place was pretty much empty. And neither of us really wanted to do anything, but we were just very very curious of what actually went on. Now we kinda went as a joke, Both of us had seen each other naked so there were no qualms there. I just said, “Hey have you ever been to a bathhouse?” and my friend responded, “Nope,” and I said,”Would you like to?” and he said, “Sure!” (amazing story right?) The first time I went to a bathhouse was with a very close friend of mine after a night of (heavy) drinking. Yup, I’d be considered one of the dirty bathhouse goers in four different countries, and you know what? I’m not ashamed. And so far I’ve had quite a lot of fun, all over the world, in four different countries to be exact. All in this year actually, I decided I’d be brave enough to go out and try it, just for fun.